9 Mature Dating Tips for Older Singles Who Want to Find Love Again

 

No matter your age, you can learn some valuable dating tips that will help you find the love of your life again – even if it’s been awhile since you were last in the dating game. Here are 9 mature dating tips to get you started! (more content)

1) What do mature daters want?

Relationships are a lot different at age 50 or 60 than they were in your 20s. In fact, most older daters aren’t as interested in one-night stands as they are in long-term relationships and finding love again. In order to find love after 60, be aware of what you want and what you need: Perhaps it’s new experiences, companionship, friendship or sex—but don’t settle until you feel that special connection with someone. And remember that when dating online, there’s no reason to rush into anything; take your time getting to know people before making any commitments. After all, you only get one shot at love!

2) Keep yourself in shape

Yes, younger singles want their partner to be in good shape. But when you’re in your 50s and beyond, taking care of yourself can be even more important. Your doctor should tell you about exercise that’s suitable for your age group. If you haven’t had a checkup recently, schedule one with a family practitioner or geriatrician today. 

They’ll check your blood pressure and weight, among other things. And don’t forget to keep an eye on your cholesterol levels; if they aren’t where they should be, work with your doctor to get them under control. Doing so will help ensure that you have many healthy years ahead—which is what everyone wants! The best thing about dating after 60 is being able to say I do once again. 

It doesn’t matter whether it was your first marriage or you were widowed or divorced before; finding love at any age is exciting, challenging and something every person deserves. You may think that it’s too late for love, but I assure you it isn’t.

3) Exercise at least 2 times a week

Lifting weights and doing cardio are both important forms of exercise, but lifting weights is particularly important if you’re a man who’s looking to attract women. If you really want your body to be an attractive signifier, then be sure that it’s in tip-top shape by keeping up with exercise at least 2 times a week. 

It may not seem like much, but when you think about how much time most people spend sitting on their couch watching TV or browsing Facebook on their phone, it’s actually quite impressive! By getting up and moving around more often, you can show yourself—and any potential partners—that you’re taking care of yourself. 

And don’t worry: while working out regularly is definitely good for your health, there isn’t any evidence that exercising too much will turn women off (in fact, some research suggests that overdoing it could make them more attracted). So go ahead: hit those squats hard!

4) Get some sleep every night

Okay, you might be tired of hearing about it by now, but there’s a reason sleep is at the top of just about every best-ways-to-live-better list. Why? Because we need it and we’re not getting enough of it. Not only does sleep give your body time to recover from daily wear and tear, but it also allows your brain to process all that information you picked up throughout your day. Plus, sleeping well can help reduce stress levels—which can contribute to everything from an extra pound or two (or three) on your frame to more serious health issues like heart disease and diabetes. Not convinced yet? Check out these tips on how to fall asleep faster tonight! 

While researchers still aren’t exactly sure why sleep matters so much, they do know when we don’t get enough of it, our bodies kick into high gear: When people are deprived of adequate rest, their metabolisms begin working overtime in order to keep them going. Some studies have even shown that lack of sleep can lead us to crave calorie-dense foods—specifically those sweet and starchy goodies often found in junk food.

5) Never give up hope

Don’t give up hope just because you aren’t seeing results right away. Don’t stop dating new people just because your current relationships aren’t working out. Take some time off, if necessary, but don’t let your hard work fall by the wayside. It may take a little time and effort to get back into a comfortable place after divorce or a breakup, but it will happen eventually! And in many cases, mature singles are more optimistic about finding love than younger singles—they know what they want and how to find it. So keep putting yourself out there—you never know who you might meet next! 

Even if you haven’t found someone yet, that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone out there for you. Chances are, at least one of your friends has been secretly hoping that you would start dating again soon.

6) Your Age Does Not Define You

Being past prime doesn’t mean you can’t find love again. The good news is, there are so many more mature singles out there than ever before! Technology, social media and matchmaking sites have made finding a compatible partner easier than ever. It might take longer, but at least now you know it’s possible! So don’t give up on finding love just because your biological clock has started ticking loudly. 

If you haven’t found someone yet, try these 9 tips to help you get back in the game: 1. Stop looking in all of the wrong places: Online dating is great if you want to meet people who share similar interests or hobbies with you. But if that’s not what you’re looking for, be open-minded about where you look for love—you never know who could be sitting next to you at church or on your morning commute! And remember that sometimes romance happens when we least expect it—so stay positive and keep an open mind.

7) Be happy with who you are

If you’re comfortable in your own skin, others will be too. As a single woman who lives alone and has found success in her career, you might feel better about yourself than you did when you were younger. But sometimes, that means it’s time to stop dating immature men—or at least find new ways of handling them so they don’t suck up all your time. It can be difficult to let go of someone who doesn’t seem like he wants to grow up or take responsibility for his actions, but if you want someone mature enough to handle an adult relationship with you, then you need to start acting like one yourself. 

It can help if you remind yourself that there are plenty of good guys out there who have their act together. And if not, make sure your friends are on board with keeping him away from you! If your group of friends includes people who aren’t great influences, make some new ones instead. Make sure you surround yourself with positive people who support your independence and encourage you to focus on what makes you happy. That way, no matter how much pressure he puts on you to compromise what makes you happy, you won’t fall prey to it. After all, life is short—and as we get older we learn more and more just how precious every moment really is.

8) Learn how to enjoy your own company

Be comfortable in your own skin and embrace who you are. Many people struggle with their appearance and self-image because they want others to accept them, but few people ever learn how to accept themselves. Take some time each day just to spend time with yourself, without any distractions. 

If you can get comfortable alone, then it will be easier for others to get close and get along with you. You’ll also become more attractive in general because other people will see your self-confidence and enjoy being around you. Just make sure that you don’t take alone time too far; if you start isolating yourself from others too much, it could hurt your chances of meeting someone new. Also make sure that alone time doesn’t turn into a regular habit; like everything else in life, balance is key. 

Make sure that while you are enjoying spending time by yourself, that you don’t neglect other important relationships in your life. And make sure that when you do go out with friends or family, that you have fun! Don’t let fear of being alone stop you from going out and having a good time. It is better to be happy than to constantly worry about what might happen if no one likes you or asks you out on a date.

9) Everyone is different, so try something new

It's always important to remember that you don't have to do what everyone else is doing, or what your friends are telling you is best. Think about dating like picking out a new hairstyle or outfit: it can be fun and exciting, but only if you're feeling comfortable in it. You might not find exactly what you're looking for at first, but keep trying different things until you find something that feels natural and true to who you are. 

That way, your dating experience will be enjoyable from start to finish. Be open-minded: Open-mindedness can mean so many things—being willing to hear all sides of an argument, being flexible when others suggest an alternative route, or simply accepting another person's perspective as valid even if you disagree with it. All of these situations can help you expand your horizons as well as make dating more interesting. 

Remember that people bring their own experiences into every situation; instead of reacting negatively when someone says something unexpected, consider their viewpoint and see where it takes you both! Keep an open mind and try to learn something new each time you go on a date. 

Try online dating: Online dating is easier than ever now, thanks to apps like Tinder and OkCupid. While online dating may seem daunting at first, it can actually be quite rewarding once you get used to it (and learn how to separate the wheat from the chaff). The best part? You don't have to leave your house!