Love Yourself
Get premarital counseling because you need to talk about money, religion, and how you're going to raise kids. You don't have to be exactly the same, but you must have a common ground if you have a problem and you have a is. You cannot be in a marriage if you don't love yourself and take care of yourself. Before you can be happy with someone else, you have to already be happy because nobody can give you that.
The most essential thing is respect, so select your words carefully since you can never take them back. If you hurt someone, you should probably try to mend fences first. It's the little things that add up to make a really healthy and enjoyable relationship. Always give compliments and tell your partner you love them every day. Be sensitive to each other. Trust each other. Lean on each other for support. Just let them be who they are. They may not be perfect, and they don't have to be, but you have to accept that they are imperfect and actually love them for their imperfections. The door should open by itself when you go to the bathroom.
when gifts are given unexpectedly You need to spend time together in order to be able to always simply continually reconnect, so don't stop having sex if you're keeping count of how often you're doing it. Don't get married until you truly want to. Since I wasn't sure I wanted to get married, the prospect of going through a divorce made me think, "Oh gosh, this is not enjoyable."