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Have you ever heard of emotional affairs? 

An emotional affair is when two individuals become emotionally close and intimate, but without the physical aspect. This type of relationship can be just as damaging as a physical one, if not more so.

The Stages Of Emotional Affairs

The stages of an emotional affair are very similar to those in any other kind of romantic or sexual relationships: initial attraction and flirtation; deepening intimacy; escalating commitment; and finally resolution or dissolution. 

Initial Attraction And Flirtation Stage

At first, it starts with flirting - exchanging glances across the room at work functions or sending each other messages on social media that hint at something deeper than friendship. As time goes by, these interactions may become more frequent until eventually they turn into something like a secret rendezvous where feelings are discussed openly between them both in person rather than online conversations which could easily be seen by others who follow them on their social media accounts . 

Deepening Intimacy Stage

 Deepening intimacy is where emotions start to get involved along with secrets being shared between the two parties involved, this is often considered crossing boundaries within committed relationships because there’s no longer just platonic feelings present anymore but instead genuine emotion-based ones have now taken over completely making it harder for either party to break away from such intense connections once formed .  

Escalating Commitment Stage

Leading onto Escalating Commitment which happens when both individuals feel safe enough around each other that they start spending much more time together outside work or social events (lunch dates etc) & even going out alone together creating opportunities for further bonding or intimacy building activities such as talking about personal matters, discussing future plans etc all whilst keeping everything hidden from their respective partners back home .  

Resolution or Dissolution Stage

Resolution / Dissolution stage occurs when one partner decides its too difficult maintaining this ‘secret’ double life & chooses either ending things altogether OR coming clean about what has been happening behind closed doors – depending upon how serious things had gotten before then will determine whether there can still be some sort hope left amongst all parties affected after everything has been revealed! 

Summary 

Emotional affairs should never replace nor take precedence over existing commitments made towards primary partners however sometimes people do find themselves caught up in situations beyond control due various reasons ranging from lack trust within current partnerships right through feeling neglected & unappreciated therefore seeking comfort elsewhere. It's important though to not forget the consequences associated with engaging in such behavior otherwise risks will become too great to handle.

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